S.H.A.P.E Class summary

S.H.A.P.E Class

Using Your SHAPE to Change the World!

Eastbrook Church Mission Statement

“To proclaim and embody the love of Jesus Christ in the city and in the world.

Description of the class

The Lord created each of us individually with different Spiritual Gifts, Passions, Abilities, Strengths and a unique Personality with different Experiences. This class will help people put the pieces of the puzzle together, so we each can be most effective in our families, church, community and the world.  When we serve according to our SHAPE, we leave a legacy that gives glory to the LORD so when we stand before Him one day, we will hear, "Well done, my good and faithful servant."

We talked about putting the “Puzzle” together…Our S.H.A.P.E in our:

Self

Family

Work

Neighborhood

Church

City

World

Looked briefly at difference between:

Needs of the world.  1,000'S

Concerns   We have many concerns

Burdens     Burdens are what we continually pray about.

Passion(s)  We can probably have up to 3.What we wake up and think and continually pray about during the day!

With goal of finding a place where we could most effectively minister with our S.H.A.P.E.

To find Service opportunities

Romans 12: 1-9

3 Circles from Good to Great in the Social World.

Need, Passion and Resources.

Concept of Need, Passion and Resources: 

When we are passionate about something…a need in the world…the Lord supplies all the resources…

 
When a person or organization has a strong "passion" about a "need" in the world...the Lord supplies the "Resources".

Also talked about the relationship between: Relationships, Communication and Forgiveness.

 Lack of "Forgiveness" limits our answers to prayer and destroys our "JOY".

Tools to identify our S.H.A.P.E 

Abilities            Idak Talent Discovery form

Spiritual Gifts  Several Spiritual Gift Assessments

Strengths          Free Strengths Assessment.   Strengthsfinder 2.0

Personality       Grid

Eastbrook Website: SHAPE Assessment

Passion(s)         Several lists.

List of people we like to work with.

List of causes we feel apart of or want to be a part of.

Looked at Hobbies

Where do you donate your financial resources?

Exercises you did:

Identified our Top 10 Experiences: Things we enjoyed and did well!

Where there was a consistent/predictable/pattern

Effortlessness

Flawless execution

Did well

Innate skill

When Can I do this again?

Joy

Lose track of time.

Discovered that there is a connection and purpose in everyday occurrences.

When we are working in these area of Joy …we see that our efforts fit into a larger picture…of what God is doing.

Saw that there is a connection among our Spiritual Gifts, Talents, Strengths, Abilities, Passion(s), Personality and Experiences and other “gifts” from the Lord, we feel more connected to others and something bigger than ourselves and experience “community” in a more profound way.

When we can replicate those times of “great experiences”…in our family, neighborhood, work and community…

Search and identify S.H.A.P.E through our past and present experiences!

 Using our SHAPE in our marriage:

 Using our new found S.H.A.P.E in our marriages:

5 Love Languages

         Quality Time

         Gifts

         Acts of Service

         Physical Touch

         Words of Affirmation

God's Call on our Life (handout)

J.C. Heiden, our Neighborhood Transformation Pastor provided us with a list. A great handout. See link below;

100 Ways to engage and connect with your neighbors!

 Stan Rowland of Neighborhood Transformation provided this great survey!
9 Questions you can use to help you connect with your neighbors! 

We discovered that we can use our SHAPE wherever we are…

Families, Careers, Church, Ministry outside our church…other non profits.

Bottom Line:
Eastbrook Church is developing a database where anyone can enter some or all of the discoveries we made and find a match with a volunteer opportunity in our church. There will be short "job" descriptions also listing the time commitment.

Discovered that Passion is the driving force that motivates us!

Whatever our SHAPE is…we can most effectively use it in an area that we are interested in and passionate about!

So…we really need to discover our Passion…what has the Lord put on our heart for ministry?

My Volunteering and My Financial Giving: Any connection?

A blog post about how to evaluate a non profit with goal of donating our financial resources and our volunteering:

http://northshorefinishingwellgroup.blogspot.com/2014/11/my-volunteering-and-my-financial-giving.html

A few books worth checking out: 

What You Do Best in the Body of Christ by Bruce Bugbee

The Call by Os Guinness
The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson
Outlive Your Life by Max Lucado
The Eternity Portfolio by Alan Gotthardt
 The Hole in the Gospel by Richard Stearns
Crazy Love by Francis Chan
Money, Possessions and Eternity by Randy Alcorn
Radical by David Plat

100 Ways to Engage Your Neighborhood

Looking for ways to be a change agent in your community or neighborhood?
Community organizer?


 The Lord created each of us individually with different Spiritual Gifts, Passions, Abilities, Strengths and a unique Personality with different Experiences. Discovering our S.H.A.P.E  helps people put the pieces of the puzzle together, so we each can be most effective in our families, church, community and the world.  When we serve according to our SHAPE, we leave a legacy that gives glory to the LORD so when we stand before Him one day, we will hear, "Well done, my good and faithful servant." 

If you don't know your S.H.A.P.E... Check this post!

Now we will be looking at ways we can use these "gifts" from the Lord more effectively!

We will also be looking at ways to use them in our Families, jobs or careers, communities and out in the world.

This is a CTA!  Call to Action!

What’s your passion?

So, no matter what your S.H.A.P.E is...it should be relatively easy to find something in this list that we are interested in, passionate about and would have fun and joy doing!  

100 Ways to Engage Your Neighborhood

Connect with J.C. Heiden: J.C. Heiden
Pastor of Local Outreach
jheiden@eastbrook.org

J.C. has a group going out into the immediate neighborhood weekly. 

But this is something anyone can do in their own neighborhood! Best doing it with a partner..that has other abilities, gifts, talents or strengths than you do. Remember, there is no "I" in team!

 I have found that it is often helpful to have practical ideas to start engaging the people around me. Most of the things on this list are normal, everyday things that many people are already doing. The hope is that we would do these things with Gospel intentionality. This means we do them:

• In the normal rhythms of life pursuing to meet and engage new people
• Prayerfully watching and listening to discern where God is working
• Boldly, humbly, and contextually proclaiming the Gospel in word and deed

Not all of these are for everyone, but hopefully there will be several ideas on the list that God uses to help you engage your neighbors. Would love to hear stories of how you have lived some of these out or other ways you have engaged your neighbors.

Neighbors – Your Immediate Neighborhood

1. Stay outside in the front yard longer while watering the yard
2. Walk your dog regularly around the same time in your neighborhood
3. Sit on the front porch and letting kids play in the front yard
4. Pass out baked goods (fresh bread, cookies, brownies, etc.)
5. Invite neighbors over for dinner
6. Attend and participate in HOA functions
7. Attend the parties invited to by neighbors
8. Do a food drive or coat drive in winter and get neighbors involved
9. Host a music share party in your home (everyone brings 5 favorite songs and discusses)
10. Offer to mow someone’s yard who needs it on your street
11. Have a garage sale
12. Organize a tasting tour on your street (everyone sets up food and table on front porch)
13. Cook Out with gate open, or even in the front yard and let neighbors know they are welcome to join.
14. Have a game night (yard games outside, or board games inside)
15. Art swap night – bring out what you’re tired of and trade with neighbors
16. Grow a garden and give out extra produce to neighbors
17. Have an Easter egg hunt on your block and invite neighbors use their front yards
18. Start a weekly open meal night in your home
19. Do a summer BBQ every Friday night and invite others to contribute
20. Create a block/ street email and phone contact list for safety
21. Invite your neighbors to serve along with you for a local cause in your community
22. Organize a backyard movie night for kids on your block
23. Prayer walk and talk to people you come across
24. Jog outside instead of on the treadmill
25. Pull their trash back in when you notice its out
26. Cook an extra casserole and give it to a neighbor
27. Buy an extra dozen donuts and give them to a neighbor
28. Start a compost pile and allow neighbors to dump their compost and take
29. Host a sports game watching party
30. Host a coffee and dessert night
31. Organize and host a ladies craft night
32. Organize an effort for neighbors to help take care of elderly in neighborhood
33. Become a regular at your neighborhood pool/park
34. If you have a skill, let neighbors know that you can use it to help them for free
35. Host a movie night and discussion afterwards
36. Start a walking/running group in the neighborhood
37. Start hosting a play date weekly for other stay at home parents
38. Organize a carpool for your neighborhood to help save gas
39. Collect good will store items and offer to take them to goodwill
40. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer
41. Start a sowing group
42. Go Christmas caroling in your neighborhood (invite neighbors in on it)
43. Throw a July 4th block party
44. Start a neighborhood Facebook/Twitter/Google + group
45. Ask longtime residents to help you learn about the neighborhood
46. Offer to babysit neighbors kids so they can have a date night
47. Find out your neighbors birthdays and take them a card and baked goods on it
48. Setup a meet your neighbors night with drinks in your driveway/front yard
49. Ask your HOA or apartment complex if they need help with anything
50. Host a regular Saturday morning breakfast potluck

Extended Neighborhood – The Regular Spots In Your City

1. Frequent a local gym or recreation center
2. Find a park that you consistently spend time with your community at
3. Pick a few restaurants to frequent getting to know the staff and regulars there
4. Go to the same coffee shop when you can
5. Start a regular ultimate Frisbee game in your city
6. Take the kids to story time at your local library
7. Let your kids play in the city sports leagues
8. Attend your city council meetings and get to know what’s going on in your city
9. Attend your local school board meetings to know what is going on in the schools
10. Participate in the local festivals, parades and celebrations of your city
11. Invite a neighbor to a local sporting event
12. Start a guys night at your local pub/eatery
13. Get involved in your kids school PTA
14. Connect with other home school kids through local coop events
15. Be a part of your local genealogical society
16. Tip generously at your regular restaurant spots
17. Participate in local film viewings and discussions
18. Attend your local High Schools sporting events
19. Coach a local little league sports team
20. Offer to teach free computer training sessions at your local library/public venue
21. Start a Study Group at a local place that needs business
22. Be a regular with your kids at the same playscape/restaurant during the day
23. Ask your local college how you can help serve international students
24. Get involved with your local lions or rotary club to learn about the community.
25. Find a local tweet-up group to meet with regularly
26. Frequent a live music night at your local coffee shop or bar
27. Make a routine of taking the family to a evening recreation spot (pool, jump zone, etc.)
28. Find a local philosophy/theology discussion group and become a regular participant
29. Find a baking meet up group and be a part of their activities
30. Go to the same hair stylist/barber and get to know them
31. Find your local bank representative and get to know them
32. Be a regular at your local farmers market
33. Take a regular stroll at your local park
34. Take your dog to the dog park in your city
35. Start a local art collective blog and organize around different themes
36. Have gospel discussions in public places where others can listen in
37. Check your areas craig’s list for community service needs
38. Ask a local restaurant owner how you could bless their employees
39. Frequent the same gas station and make an effort to get to know the workers there
40. Watch sporting events at the same local sports bar/restaurant in your city
41. When you can, support local businesses and get to know the people in that business.
42. Visit your cities visitors center to learn about the it’s history
43. Start a storytelling group at your local coffee shop
44. Organize a kids fun day at your city park
45. Offer free computer/technology help for elderly citizens in your area
46. Start a bike repair co-op
47. Cook out at your local park and invite the people there to eat with you
48. Start a sowing class at your local community center
49. Organize a co-working time at your local coffee shop for people who work at home

50. Join a city softball, soccer, football, basketball league.

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If you have read this far...maybe you might want to research how you could use your "gifts' in a national organization...that might  have a local chapter. 

http://northshorefinishingwellgroup.blogspot.com/2014/11/my-volunteering-and-my-financial-giving.html 

 

What Are You Putting First?

Copied from Lysa TerKeust email to my wife

I’m the kind of girl who likes to get her day started bright and early. I want to answer emails, text messages, and be totally caught up on social media hours before the first alarm goes off in my house. And as long as everything I read and see is positive and encouraging and completely wonderful, I can say with enthusiasm, Yes! I can take on this day!
But in reality there’s usually something I click on that is less than awesome. And when I choose to give the first moments of my day to those things… those shouts of the world… instead of spending them with God, I sense my soul getting a bit parched. Small things annoy me. The Lord seems a little farther away from my life that day. And I just can’t shake that nagging feeling that I’m not measuring up.
Even if you’re not an early riser, I have a sneaking suspicion that you know what I’m talking about. I want to start giving my first thoughts of the day to the Lord. So, here are 3 reasons that we should reach for God’s Word in the morning instead of social media, email, and other distractions:

1) What feeds us, affects us. When I wake up, my mind is like a dry sponge. What I soak up first will saturate me most deeply. If I don’t want to be consumed with the stresses of my day, I must soak up what will renew my mind instead: God’s Word. Even if it’s only for 5 minutes, I’ve got to put the world on hold until I’ve checked in with God.
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

2) There are scientifically-proven benefits. I read some research by Dr. Caroline Leaf recently that revealed something so fascinating. When we sleep our brains produce baby neurons. How we use those new neurons first thing in the morning determines so much about our patterns of thought for that day. And that process is called… neuroGENESIS! How cool is that?! Giving the Lord our first thoughts – our genesis thoughts – each day can really help us process life in healthier ways. So from a spiritual and scientific standpoint our first 5 minutes really matter!
“ …We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5b (NIV)

3) God desires to help us. He wants to give us the exact instruction and comfort we need to handle all He sees coming our way—how to act and, even more challenging, how to react in every situation. But we can’t experience that if we aren’t spending time with Him. Giving Him our first thoughts each day is the perfect way from the start to receive His protection and direction for that day.
“In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you…” Proverbs 3:6 (TLB)
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